I am begging you to stop going on Access Hollywood Live.
I loves me some Charlie, I ADORE you and that you stayed out the media when he was going through batshit crazy phase. You didn’t have a single thing to say even though everyone was baiting you into saying something. You’re a woman so I know you had some shit to say, but for the well being of your daughters you handled it with such grace and poise. I may or may not have been so generous if my dumb ass ex husbands had been going through it and looking like a loon. In fact, they did and I did my best to shut up, but when their actions were hurting my girls, I had to say something. That opened the flood gates and I wish I could say I regret it, but I don’t. We all have our own paths.
So, now to Access Hollywood thing. I am so tired of those two spending 15 of the 20 minutes of the interview hounding you about Charlie. You’re so much more than his exwife. Don’t they read your Twitter?
Yes, you two get along and I have a great relationship with my ex (when he’s not being a complete jackass) and we do a lot for the girls and they see how much each one of us does. It’s not so abnormal. When he remarries (and I truly hope he does) we won’t be able to be friends like we are now, and that’s alright I guess.
So what I am asking is if you do go on their show again, can you please ask them to leave you and Charlie out of it? I would LOVE to watch an interview about YOU. You’re an amazing, wonderful mother who does so much.
If they want to hear about Charlie, let them interview him.
Kristine
5 responses to “Dear Denise Richards,”
dude the fact that you accept that he might not be your friend if he remarries is powerful. how did you get to this place? i am dealing with my ex’s new woman basically putting a violent stop to my ex even speaking to his children or i. so how do you get to that place?
I would HOPE that Dan wouldn’t be that stupid and lose his mind over a piece of ass, but they are men and from past experience THEY DO.
How do I get to that place. I know he loves his girls and would lay down his life to protect them and that includes putting up with someone that would block him from seeing them because she has an issue with me.
Being the ‘new woman’ in Lester’s life, I just step back and let him do what he’s going to do. He’s a huge part of his son’s life and if keeping the peace means I don’t go to any of his sporting events or just try to disappear in case she decides to go off on a bender about me, then that is what I do.
I’m a part of his life and I won’t be disrespected, but it’s a fine line. I’ve been a step mom since I was 18 years old to 3 different children.
Trust me, I will stand up for myself if anyone decides they need to get shitty with me or puts me in a place where I am feeling disrespected in any way shape or form.
It’s the big picture though…the kids.
Hopefully, like someone I know, hopefully he will see how this woman drove a huge wedge between him and his kids and how he lost their respect in some aspect. Yes she can play the role of ‘step mom’ and try to be all supportive and shit, but in the end the relationship between him and his kids will be what will open his eyes…HOPEFULLY. That relationship speaks volumes.
yeah, i have very little faith from line “he’d lay down his life to protect them.” i think in my situation there is very little hope. i can’t even get a phone number out of this guy these days.
thanks man, i think about your story a lot and wish mine had worked as well.
Sweetie,
Wishing won’t get you anywhere. You have to put a loooooooot of work into it. If the other person isn’t willing to work, there isn’t an amount of wishing that will fix it.
*HUG*
yup yup.