{"id":731,"date":"2005-10-10T22:02:00","date_gmt":"2005-10-11T05:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/?p=731"},"modified":"2006-04-05T12:03:34","modified_gmt":"2006-04-05T19:03:34","slug":"112900837637003741","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/?p=731","title":{"rendered":"112900837637003741"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"Photo Sharing\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/obnoxiousaries\/50990245\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"398\" alt=\"thinking venti\" src=\"http:\/\/static.flickr.com\/26\/50990245_7e72bcf698.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I called my ex-husband and told him the news. He was&#8230;happy. I think. I don&#8217;t know. Shaun told his ex and she was happy for us too.<br \/>\nWe haven&#8217;t told his parents yet. Shaun&#8217;s sister got engaged this weekend too and we didn&#8217;t want to spoil her &#8216;moment in the spotlight&#8217;.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m FREAKING OUT to tell his grandmas. I want to be there though. I want those hugs they are going to shell out.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this is one of the happiest times of my whole life, I am feeling a bit bitter in some places.<br \/>\nDuring the &#8216;spreading of my grandma&#8217;s ashes&#8217; I had a fall out with my dad. He said some things to me that I only read in my hate mail folder. Because i&#8217;m a Seguin, I am stubborn and I won&#8217;t call him so he can apologize, even though he told my mom he felt bad.<br \/>\nI called and left a message on his machine saying, &#8220;I didn&#8217;t want you to hear it from anyone else&#8230;Shaun proposed this weekend&#8230;I&#8217;m getting married. Bye.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Shaun and I are waiting for his son, Dennis to come home from Afghanistan and for his dad to fully recover from his heart attack before we even start planning this thing. I wouldn&#8217;t even begin to know how to plan it. I did a fine job of it when I was younger and thought that my whole happiness hinged on if I had the perfect dress, flowers and EVERYONE I ever knew was there. This time around I am so much smarter. If I could have the wedding budgeted under 15 bucks I would happy. Maybe I can use that left over beer in my fridge for the reception?<\/p>\n<p>I got home from the store today and removed my soap from the box and Shea  grabbed it from out of the trash.<br \/>\n&#8220;We are going to need this.&#8221;<br \/>\nShea has been on this Pokemon card collecting spree and I figured it was to store some of her cards in there.<br \/>\nShe turned to Alyx and said, &#8220;We will use this to practice being flower girls.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Shaun&#8217;s son, Dennis IMed me tonight and told me he saw the picture of the ring. He asked, &#8220;What Cracker Jack Box did he find that thing in?&#8221;<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a antique 1940&#8217;s engagement and wedding ring&#8230;a ring with some history. Dennis laughed and said, &#8220;If I wasn&#8217;t in the army and a war hero&#8230;I would say it was &#8216;pretty'&#8221;<br \/>\nI think all that camouflage is going to his head.<\/p>\n<p>I will update the SPF for this week later on today.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you  so much on all the kinds words!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I called my ex-husband and told him the news. He was&#8230;happy. I think. I don&#8217;t know. Shaun told his ex and she was happy for us too. We haven&#8217;t told his parents yet. Shaun&#8217;s sister got engaged this weekend too and we didn&#8217;t want to spoil her &#8216;moment in the spotlight&#8217;. I&#8217;m FREAKING OUT to tell his grandmas. I want to be there though. I want those hugs they are going to shell out. Even though this is one of the happiest times of my whole life, I am feeling a bit bitter in some places. During the &#8216;spreading of my grandma&#8217;s ashes&#8217; I had a fall out with my dad. He said some things to me that I only read in my hate mail folder. Because i&#8217;m a Seguin, I am stubborn and I won&#8217;t call him so he can apologize, even though he told my mom he felt bad. I called and left a message on his machine saying, &#8220;I didn&#8217;t want you to hear it from anyone else&#8230;Shaun proposed this weekend&#8230;I&#8217;m getting married. Bye.&#8221; Shaun and I are waiting for his son, Dennis to come home from Afghanistan and for his dad to fully recover from his heart attack before we even start planning this thing. I wouldn&#8217;t even begin to know how to plan it. I did a fine job of it when I was younger and thought that my whole happiness hinged on if I had the perfect dress, flowers and EVERYONE I ever knew was there. This time around I am so much smarter. If I could have the wedding budgeted under 15 bucks I would happy. Maybe I can use that left over beer in my fridge for the reception? I got home from the store today and removed my soap from the box and Shea grabbed it from out of the trash. &#8220;We are going to need this.&#8221; Shea has been on this Pokemon card collecting spree and I figured it was to store some of her cards in there. She turned to Alyx and said, &#8220;We will use this to practice being flower girls.&#8221; Shaun&#8217;s son, Dennis IMed me tonight and told me he saw the picture of the ring. He asked, &#8220;What Cracker Jack Box did he find that thing in?&#8221; It&#8217;s a antique 1940&#8217;s engagement and wedding ring&#8230;a ring with some history. Dennis laughed and said, &#8220;If I wasn&#8217;t in the army and a war hero&#8230;I would say it was &#8216;pretty&#8217;&#8221; I think all that camouflage is going to his head. I will update the SPF for this week later on today. Thank you so much on all the kinds words!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-731","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/731","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=731"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/731\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=731"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=731"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=731"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}