{"id":1599,"date":"2008-02-25T20:50:52","date_gmt":"2008-02-26T03:50:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/?p=1599"},"modified":"2008-02-25T20:50:52","modified_gmt":"2008-02-26T03:50:52","slug":"1599","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/?p=1599","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

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I had written a post going into detail about the stupid drama going on in the Random and Odd household.\u00a0 I decided to delete it and go with this;<\/p>\n

Don’t you hate stupid people? Don’t you hate it when people make judgments by only hearing one side of the story? Don’t you hate it when you’re forced to pick a side?<\/p>\n

Recently I was pulled into an argument that had NOTHING to do with me.\u00a0 The only reason I got drug into it was because my 14 year old daughter was being called names by an adult who only listened to one side of the story.<\/p>\n

I am now left with the words that were said to me.\u00a0 This person hurt my feelings by saying things that weren’t true.\u00a0 Now I ask myself, “If I know they aren’t true…then why is it bothering me?”\u00a0 Because I hate it when people think I am a way that I am not.\u00a0 It’s not wrong for people to want to see you for who you are.\u00a0 MANY years were spend with me pretending to be a certain way so I would fit into the mold.\u00a0\u00a0 When I didn’t fit in, I lost my mind and hurt a lot of people in the process of ‘finding myself’.<\/p>\n

It’s been a few days and I have calmed down enough to try to see things from a different point of view.\u00a0 What I am lead to believe is, this person…has lost her mind as well.\u00a0 She was being forced into a mold that she doesn’t fit into and doesn’t want to be in.\u00a0 The only way to ‘be heard’ is to scream and shout and act a fool.\u00a0 It’s just sad that SO many other people are being hurt because of it.\u00a0 What is going to hurt later on is when it’s over and done.<\/p>\n

Many times I have said, “I’m an Aries, I am too lazy to hold a grudge.”\u00a0 Sure, that may be the case. I won’t carry around hurt and resentment. I will look at it for what it was and then throw it away.\u00a0\u00a0 Without a shadow of doubt, the day will come when this person comes to me and says, “I don’t know what I was thinking. I’m sorry.”<\/p>\n

Now, what I am left with is, what will be my response?\u00a0 I know I will want to say, “You said you didn’t like me and I should go to hell.”\u00a0 Point out how I was misjudged and labeled.\u00a0 Or will I do what I always do and say, “Aww, it’s alright.”<\/p>\n

God knows I don’t want to.\u00a0 I was HURT.\u00a0 Does my feelings not matter to ANYONE?\u00a0 Is it alright for someone to attack someone and then later on want to be a part of your life?\u00a0 I’m tired of excuses.<\/p>\n

I’m tired of people being resentful of people when something good happens to them.\u00a0 I am tired of people acting like children and only liking you when you are willing to live by their ‘rules’.
\nWho I decide to forgive is up to me.<\/p>\n

You words will come back to haunt you.\u00a0 Use them wisely.<\/p>\n

And with that said; \u00a0\u00a0 BRING ON MY BIRTHDAY MONTH!!\u00a0 this month just sucked the big donkey.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I had written a post going into detail about the stupid drama going on in the Random and Odd household.\u00a0 I decided to delete it and go with this; Don’t you hate stupid people? Don’t you hate it when people make judgments by only hearing one side of the story? Don’t you hate it when you’re forced to pick a side? Recently I was pulled into an argument that had NOTHING to do with me.\u00a0 The only reason I got drug into it was because my 14 year old daughter was being called names by an adult who only listened to one side of the story. I am now left with the words that were said to me.\u00a0 This person hurt my feelings by saying things that weren’t true.\u00a0 Now I ask myself, “If I know they aren’t true…then why is it bothering me?”\u00a0 Because I hate it when people think I am a way that I am not.\u00a0 It’s not wrong for people to want to see you for who you are.\u00a0 MANY years were spend with me pretending to be a certain way so I would fit into the mold.\u00a0\u00a0 When I didn’t fit in, I lost my mind and hurt a lot of people in the process of ‘finding myself’. It’s been a few days and I have calmed down enough to try to see things from a different point of view.\u00a0 What I am lead to believe is, this person…has lost her mind as well.\u00a0 She was being forced into a mold that she doesn’t fit into and doesn’t want to be in.\u00a0 The only way to ‘be heard’ is to scream and shout and act a fool.\u00a0 It’s just sad that SO many other people are being hurt because of it.\u00a0 What is going to hurt later on is when it’s over and done. Many times I have said, “I’m an Aries, I am too lazy to hold a grudge.”\u00a0 Sure, that may be the case. I won’t carry around hurt and resentment. I will look at it for what it was and then throw it away.\u00a0\u00a0 Without a shadow of doubt, the day will come when this person comes to me and says, “I don’t know what I was thinking. I’m sorry.” Now, what I am left with is, what will be my response?\u00a0 I know I will want to say, “You said you didn’t like me and I should go to hell.”\u00a0 Point out how I was misjudged and labeled.\u00a0 Or will I do what I always do and say, “Aww, it’s alright.” God knows I don’t want to.\u00a0 I was HURT.\u00a0 Does my feelings not matter to ANYONE?\u00a0 Is it alright for someone to attack someone and then later on want to be a part of your life?\u00a0 I’m tired of excuses. I’m tired of people being resentful of people when something good happens to them.\u00a0 I am tired of people acting like children and only liking you when you are willing to live by their ‘rules’. Who I decide to forgive is up to me. You words will come back to haunt you.\u00a0 Use them wisely. And with that said; \u00a0\u00a0 BRING ON MY BIRTHDAY MONTH!!\u00a0 this month just sucked the big donkey.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1599"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1599\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}