{"id":1524,"date":"2007-10-23T00:50:30","date_gmt":"2007-10-23T07:50:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/?p=1524"},"modified":"2007-10-23T00:54:26","modified_gmt":"2007-10-23T07:54:26","slug":"acceptance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/?p=1524","title":{"rendered":"Acceptance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1017\/1469813548_18aada5fd5.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whenever I get lost on a certain word, I go to Wikipedia to read up on it.  Sometimes I get lost in the definitions of words that turns into a path of links and I forget where I started.<br \/>\nThis happened tonight.<br \/>\nI found a list of &#8217;emotions&#8217; and all the words jumped out at me, urgently asking for attention.  I copied the list and began looking at each one of them.  They were all beautiful words, each one begging to be examined more deeply.<\/p>\n<p>Tonight&#8217;s word was acceptance.  How can I incorporate that word into my daily life?  I then realized how much &#8216;acceptance&#8217; I do have.  It&#8217;s not always unconditional or without questioning it, but I do have it.<\/p>\n<p>The next question I asked myself what my limits to acceptance are?<br \/>\nMy doctor made sure that in order to save my life, I was going to have to put limits on what I will or will not except in my life.<br \/>\nWithout question, the number one thing was to avoid drama.  Shaun and I have taken a solid stand on being the &#8216;common ground&#8217;. We refuse to be pulled into other people&#8217;s drama.  We have also said that is the thing we want our children to learn.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s amazing how many times you have to ask your teenage daughter, &#8220;How does all of that drama have to do with YOU?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>According to <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Acceptance\">Wikipedia, Acceptance<\/a>&#8230; usually refers to the experience of a situation without an intention to change that situation.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m never true to my SELF when it comes to accepting things.  I want to be a certain type of person&#8230;an organized, together, &#8216;got it done&#8217; type of person. Unfortunitly I am not that person. I want to be a &#8216;get out there and do it and experience it&#8217; type of person. I am also not that person.<br \/>\nIs this something I accept? How do I push myself to be that person if it&#8217;s something I want?  Or do I realize I am not that person and stop trying to change it?<\/p>\n<p>When I was a teenager and my parents and I would bounce off to church every Sunday, the one thing that always stuck with me (because I was stubborn) was Faith is believing what you can not see.  I couldn&#8217;t SEE my faith, but damn it, I better believe it or I will rot in hell (Baptist&#8230;of course).<\/p>\n<p>I think that is what my acceptance has to be.  I have to believe that there are things I can&#8217;t change.<\/p>\n<p>I asked you what your blessings were for the weekend and I was personally touched by each of your responses. I craved more and more comments so I could swim in your blessed moments.<\/p>\n<p>What are your thoughts on the word &#8216;acceptance&#8217;? What do you Accept in your life?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever I get lost on a certain word, I go to Wikipedia to read up on it. Sometimes I get lost in the definitions of words that turns into a path of links and I forget where I started. This happened tonight. I found a list of &#8217;emotions&#8217; and all the words jumped out at me, urgently asking for attention. I copied the list and began looking at each one of them. They were all beautiful words, each one begging to be examined more deeply. Tonight&#8217;s word was acceptance. How can I incorporate that word into my daily life? I then realized how much &#8216;acceptance&#8217; I do have. It&#8217;s not always unconditional or without questioning it, but I do have it. The next question I asked myself what my limits to acceptance are? My doctor made sure that in order to save my life, I was going to have to put limits on what I will or will not except in my life. Without question, the number one thing was to avoid drama. Shaun and I have taken a solid stand on being the &#8216;common ground&#8217;. We refuse to be pulled into other people&#8217;s drama. We have also said that is the thing we want our children to learn. It&#8217;s amazing how many times you have to ask your teenage daughter, &#8220;How does all of that drama have to do with YOU?&#8221; According to Wikipedia, Acceptance&#8230; usually refers to the experience of a situation without an intention to change that situation. I&#8217;m never true to my SELF when it comes to accepting things. I want to be a certain type of person&#8230;an organized, together, &#8216;got it done&#8217; type of person. Unfortunitly I am not that person. I want to be a &#8216;get out there and do it and experience it&#8217; type of person. I am also not that person. Is this something I accept? How do I push myself to be that person if it&#8217;s something I want? Or do I realize I am not that person and stop trying to change it? When I was a teenager and my parents and I would bounce off to church every Sunday, the one thing that always stuck with me (because I was stubborn) was Faith is believing what you can not see. I couldn&#8217;t SEE my faith, but damn it, I better believe it or I will rot in hell (Baptist&#8230;of course). I think that is what my acceptance has to be. I have to believe that there are things I can&#8217;t change. I asked you what your blessings were for the weekend and I was personally touched by each of your responses. I craved more and more comments so I could swim in your blessed moments. What are your thoughts on the word &#8216;acceptance&#8217;? What do you Accept in your life?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1524","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1524","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1524"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1524\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/randomandodd.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}