• Random and Odd

    ya’ll waiting, I know…

    It will be two years since the marriage ended (in April) and 4 months of being single.  If I get one more email telling me to spill it when it comes to the dating scene, i’m going to close down this blog and you’ll be forced to read about my escapades on Facebook.

    Yes, I would love to spill the details of that sordid night of arousing moral destruction.   I don’t have any. Well, I do. But not that I can share here, there or anywhere.   I’m a private person.   Bwhahahaha!   I actually tried to type that with a straight face.

    Here are the answers to the questions I have been asked:

    no. not really. I thought I could and at the last minute I backed out claiming I had the flu.
    Hanging out?
    yes. I have some really amazing friends that I am spending time with.
    Sordid nights of arousing moral destruction?
    Uh. No. I still have morals.  …  …. …..Bwhahhaha! shut up.
    Someone special?
    yes and no.
    Over your divorce?
    OH HELL THE FUCK YES.  I was thinking about that again this morning. I am baffled how someone can be your whole world, you can be together that long and go through the things you did and be married and love each other…but now that he is gone my life is better. How is that possible?  I don’t know. I’m glad he left. THIS is my life. I am lucky enough to call THIS my life!
    Over that ‘one guy’?
    Yes and no.  I’ve accepted that we won’t ever be together. I have also learned that much like my divorce revelation, I am a different kind of happy and there are other people in this world that think I am amazing, have beautiful eyes and want to get to know me for who I am.
    How’s quitting smoking?
    Well, I would stab someone in the neck for a single drag.
    How’s the new place?
    Awesome.  The stairs are a bit much at times, but I like it.

    I’ve mentioned the list my sister has made and how I have managed to tweak it a bit.  I put on Facebook that I was trying to decide between Castle Crag and Mt. Lassen…or both.    I got a huge response from people that would like to join us,  including my brother.
    So what started out with just me and my sister is now up to 6 more people.   Hopefully with those people doing it and talking about it, it will encourage others to join us. It will be interesting to see how many people will be there the day we climb the mountain.
    If you’re interested, shoot me an email at random and odd at gmail dot com and I will send you the details.
    Okay, now I get to spend the rest of the day making sure that I don’t accidentally stab people.